LIVE BY CHOICE NOT BY CHANCE!!!!

Sometimes life wants  us to make choices or it can be said life creates such situation where we have no choices and only thing which comes our ways … we flow with it. It doesn’t mean that we are addicted to it but the only reason is that we don’t want to be lonely or being get separated with the one we love and care .as we are humans so this can be appreciated as …// homo sapiens basic nature as such one cannot deny that being social or getting indulge in such activities should make us feel bad about ourselfves when it doesn’t work out with someone.

In recent few days I got to realized some new stuffs of life  which I think can help me to change my attitude towards it.as before this I think I was seeing life very easy and comfortable .but one learns everyday from every person who comes in ones life to stay or somehow it leaves for their stupid reasons. I mean life is always not the bed of roses ,which always one feels ///when at present everything  seems to be running smoothly in each others life.

So  would like to share the thought proceeses which although broke me from inside but it………….. I think can mould me to grow stronger in all ways and circumstances.

Firstly  understood  that …………..be a limited edition don’t be available for every person every time

Definitely will loose your respect in their eyes. If not then will loose attachment . I ‘m not saying that everytime it happens but generally .

Secondly  learn to say no when u really don’t mean to it .and don’t be nice to all person becoz u cannot make everybody happy …and most important you rather not here to entertain every possible person you know. …………………..Do what makes u happy .

                           ………………..do what makes you feel comfortable

                         …………………….do what gives you inner peace.

And most important self love … always get stuck to it………..be yourself no matters what happens…..

 

And thirdly in this fake world where every other  have different faces. Try to understand who is right for you that doesn’t mean I am saying that every person is rude or always bad people exists . like it all means…………….. it is all matter of understanding between two.

As every common choices cannot make best of …always between the two.. as it could also be said that sometimes uncommon people also have best understanding of theirs.

@manishanandan