LIVE BY CHOICE NOT BY CHANCE!!!!

There are some moments in life we all face ………………. when someone tests our patience or when a situation feels like it demands a response. Ever noticed how the simplest acts—staying silent and smiling—can be the most powerful? I think it does ……….. Let me share why.???????

When someone says something that pushes your buttons, the first instinct is often to defend, argue, or explain. But have you tried staying silent? Silence is like a pause button. It gives you control over your emotions and the situation. Instead of reacting in the heat of the moment, you take a beat, and sometimes, that’s all you need to see things more clearly.

Here’s the thing: silence isn’t weakness. It’s strength. When you choose silence, you’re saying, “I don’t need to prove anything.” People often talk to be heard or to get a reaction, but when you stay silent, it leaves them with their own words to think about. And guess what? It also saves you from saying something you might regret later.

Now, about smiling. A smile is magic. Not the forced, “I’m-faking-it” kind, but a genuine, peaceful smile. It says, “I’m above this situation.” Smiling doesn’t just calm others; it calms you, too. You might find that smile turning a tense moment into one where everyone relaxes a bit.

Imagine this: Someone throws a sarcastic comment your way, expecting a fight. But instead of reacting, you stay silent, maybe even offer a small smile. What happens? The power shifts. You’re in control, not the other person.

This doesn’t mean silence and smiles solve everything, of course. There are times when you need to speak up or take action. But for those moments when words would only add fuel to the fire, try this: stay silent, keep smiling.

Trust me, it’s a game-changer. And if nothing else, it leaves people wondering, “What’s their secret?”

So, next time life throws you a curveball, remember this simple mantra: the best answer? Stay silent. The best reaction? Keep smiling. It’s not about avoiding conflict; it’s about rising above it.

@nandasagec MANISHA NANDAN

PLZ DO LIKE SHARE AND SUBSCRIBE TO STAY TUNED FOR MORE

HAPPY READING!