LIVE BY CHOICE NOT BY CHANCE!!!!

Every person is different from each other and unique in their own ways . The only thing to be with each other or to say in a sense to socialize is to understand each others feeling and the way they are . You cannot change any person and then want to be with them .I don’t think so it is right . So in my opinion it is utmost need to accept an individual the way he is.

The concept of introversion and introverts (and other personality types) was popularized a long back by psychologist Carl Jung in the early 1900s. According to Jung, introverts are people who tend to be preoccupied with their own thoughts and feelings and minimize their contact with other people.

It is quite often seen that Introverts are people who need some alone time to recharge after interacting with a lot of people. But that really doesn’t mean they hate people or dislike other people, rather than they simply prefer their own company. So Introverts due to their shy nature, generally find it hard to stand up for themselves or say “no” to people when needed. 

In today’s extroverted world, where everyone seems to be competing with one another to be the best and reach the top, it becomes increasingly difficult for an introvert to survive. So here are some tips exclusively for introverts to get through this cut-throat world.

1.Take time off when needed

It can get quite tiring for you to make small talk with people everyday in your attempt to be social and outgoing. Don’t feel bad or neglect your feelings if you feel drained. Take time off and spend time in your own company to recharge.

2.Don’t try to change yourself just to fit in

Being in an extroverted world, where people are loud, aggressive and dominating, you may try to change your shy nature and push yourself to be more like them. Don’t change yourself just to fit in, accept who you are and love yourself for that.

3.Stick to your beliefs

If you don’t feel like going out or meeting someone new, be honest with people and say “no” to plans. Don’t force yourself to be someone that you are not. 

4. Try to take a stand

It can be very easy for people to pull you down or dominate you, given your introverted nature. Don’t be afraid to take a stand for yourself if you feel that someone is taking advantage of your introversion.

The Gift of Being an Introvert

Many introverts grow up feeling out of place. We live in a fast, noisy world that sees chattiness as a virtue. Many introverts worry from a young age that something is wrong with them.But believe me ..it not like that.

Remember: your quiet nature is part of who you are—and it’s a good thing. Introverts who embrace their nature tend to flourish.

As if you see around yourself they too are happier, have better relationships, do better work, and enjoy life because their minds are well-rested and their energy level is high. The best thing you can do if you’re an introvert is not try to change it, but to take the alone time you need and let your vast inner world work for you.

Guys don’t ever think that you are not strong enough or being shy will make you lose in in front of other people .The world has a need for people who go deeper, think before they act, and look at things in new ways.

The world has a place for people who value meaningful relationships over meaningless small talk.

And the world is ready for thoughtful, contemplative people who bring calm and wisdom to a room.

These are traits that introverts offer. And, precisely because the world has so many extroverts, but when you step into these traits and own them, you will find that people appreciate you — and value you.

Some of the motivational quotes on being a introvert by some famous personalities are –

1. Extroverts sparkle, introverts glow. Extroverts are fireworks, introverts are a fire in the hearth.

BY- -Sophia Dembling

2. Introverts are collectors of thoughts, and solitude is where the collection is curated and rearranged to make sense of the present and future.

BY- Laurie Helgoe 

3. Don’t think of introversion as something that needs to be cured… Spend your free time the way you like, not the way you think you’re supposed to.

BY- Susan Cain

So as a conclusion I would only say at last is to be the way you are and most important love the way you are .Always remember you are the best version of yourself and never under estimate it.

MANISHA NANDAN