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Why You Should Be Selective About Sharing Your Problems

Ever felt like opening up about your troubles only to wonder later if it was the right choice? You’re not alone. Let’s discuss about why it might be a good idea to be a bit picky about who you share your problems with. Most People Just Don’t Care Here’s a hard truth: around 80% of…

Ever felt like opening up about your troubles only to wonder later if it was the right choice? You’re not alone. Let’s discuss about why it might be a good idea to be a bit picky about who you share your problems with.

Most People Just Don’t Care

Here’s a hard truth: around 80% of people you talk to might not care about your problems. It’s not that they’re bad people; they’re just wrapped up in their own lives. Everyone has their own issues; sometimes, they’re too preoccupied to listen or offer meaningful support.

Some Might Even Be Happy About Your Problems

Surprisingly, a small percentage of folks might feel a bit of satisfaction knowing you’re struggling. It’s not nice, but it’s a reality. Maybe it’s due to jealousy, competition, or just a negative mindset. The point is, that not everyone has your best interests at heart.

So, Who Should You Talk To?

  • Trusted Friends and Family: These are the people who have shown time and again that they care about you. They’ve been there for you, and you can count on them to lend a sympathetic ear.
  • Professionals: Therapists, counsellors, and support groups are trained to help you navigate your issues without judgment.
  • Supportive Communities: Whether it’s online forums, support groups, or community organizations, these spaces are designed for people to share and support each other.

Why It Matters

Talking to the right people can make a huge difference. They can offer valuable advice, a fresh perspective, or simply a shoulder to lean on. On the other hand, sharing with the wrong crowd can leave you feeling worse.

Final Thoughts

Being selective doesn’t mean you shouldn’t open up. It just means being mindful about who you confide in. Trust your instincts, lean on those who’ve proven their loyalty, and seek professional help if needed.

Remember, it’s okay to be cautious. Your feelings and experiences deserve respect and understanding.

Take care!

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Responses to “Why You Should Be Selective About Sharing Your Problems”

  1. shivatje

    first try to solve the problem yourself or find out how to solve it. Good text
    🙏🌹

    Aum Shanti

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    1. nandasagec

      THANK YOU SO MUCH

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  2. macalder02

    Today we live in a world where selfishness prevails and in part, it is because problems overwhelm us more than necessary. We are so stressed that there is no time to think about others.
    But that does not mean that sharing problems will allow us to observe ourselves in the other’s eyes and analyze what in our personality is causing us harm.
    A good article to take the recommendations into account.

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    1. nandasagec

      Thank you

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      1. macalder02

        You are welcome

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  3. Mohnish

    I think problems mostly should be shared only with the divine. There are very few people who are mature enough to understand what one is really going through. Often only people who have seen a lot in life and people who are on a spiritual path are the only ones who have the compassion and the wisdom to guide you correctly and see life from a broader perspective.

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    1. nandasagec

      Yes you are right. Thanks for going through and enlightening on this post.

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  4. Mindful Mystic (MM)

    Being mindful and selective about who we confide in is wise advice. Not everyone cares or has our best interests at heart.

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    1. nandasagec

      Yes indeed.. Thanks for going through the post

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