LIVE BY CHOICE NOT BY CHANCE!!!!

We often hear people say, “I don’t care what others think,” but the truth is, most of us care to some extent about how others perceive us. But why does attention from others matter to us, and how much should it influence our lives?

From a young age, we naturally seek validation from our parents, teachers, and friends. It’s a way of learning about social norms and understanding what is acceptable behavior. As we grow, this need for validation doesn’t disappear—it evolves. We may seek approval from colleagues at work, admiration from our peers, or acknowledgment of our achievements. The attention we receive from others can make us feel valued, appreciated, and understood. It can boost our self-esteem, motivate us to work harder, and even influence our sense of identity.

In some ways, seeking attention is a human need. We are social beings, and being noticed or acknowledged can give us a sense of belonging. When people pay attention to our words, our work, or our ideas, it makes us feel like we matter. This feeling of being important can be empowering and can even inspire us to grow and improve.

However, there’s a flip side to this. When we start depending too much on others’ attention, it can make us lose sight of who we really are and what truly makes us happy. We might start living for others’ approval, constantly adjusting our behavior to fit their expectations. This can lead to stress, anxiety, and a feeling of emptiness because our sense of worth becomes tied to what others think of us, rather than how we feel about ourselves.

Balancing this is the key. It’s natural to appreciate recognition and care about what people think, but it’s also important to remember that everyone has their own perspectives and opinions. No matter how hard we try, we can’t always make everyone happy. It’s essential to stay true to our own values and not let the need for attention dictate our choices.

In the end, while others’ attention can be motivating and uplifting, it should not become the sole measure of our worth. Building a sense of self-worth that is not entirely dependent on external validation can help us feel more fulfilled and confident, no matter who is paying attention.

@nandasagec manisha nandan

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