LIVE BY CHOICE NOT BY CHANCE!!!!

In life, one of the hardest things we often face is being honest with ourselves. We can be quick to tell others the truth, but when it comes to reflecting on our own feelings, desires, or situations, we sometimes convince ourselves of things that aren’t true. This tendency to lie to ourselves can prevent us from growing, learning, and living authentically. But why do we do this? And what happens when we stop?

First, let’s consider why we might lie to ourselves. It’s easier, right? It’s far more comfortable to ignore a difficult truth and create a comforting narrative in our minds. Maybe we’re afraid of facing something painful or confronting our mistakes. It could be as simple as denying that we’re not feeling okay when we know deep down we are struggling. Or, it might involve convincing ourselves that a bad relationship or job situation is fine when we know we deserve better.

However, when we lie to ourselves, we miss out on the opportunity to address what’s really going on. We allow fears and insecurities to hold us back from making necessary changes. More importantly, we lose touch with who we truly are. If we don’t acknowledge our feelings and needs, how can we make decisions that align with our authentic selves? So, what happens when we stop lying to ourselves? It’s not always easy, but being true to our heart can bring incredible clarity and freedom. We might have to face uncomfortable truths, but those truths are the stepping stones to personal growth. By confronting our fears, acknowledging our weaknesses, and accepting our desires, we can begin to make choices that truly reflect who we are.

Being honest with ourselves also helps us build healthier relationships. When we know and accept ourselves, we can be open with others. This honesty fosters trust, connection, and understanding, allowing us to build stronger, more meaningful relationships. Moreover, being true to ourselves means we can live more authentically. Instead of pretending to be someone we’re not or going along with what others expect, we can pursue our passions and live according to our own values. When we stop lying to ourselves, we allow ourselves to embrace our uniqueness and live more fully.

To be true to our hearts is a courageous act. It requires vulnerability and strength, but the rewards are worth it. Life becomes clearer, simpler, and more fulfilling

So what I think is …………………… being true to ourselves is the most important thing we can do for our happiness and well-being.

………………………………What you all feel ????????????????????

@nandasagec manisha nandan

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