LIVE BY CHOICE NOT BY CHANCE!!!!

For most of us, work is a huge part of life. Isn’t i? And why should it not be …………………because …………… It pays the bills, fills our schedules, and sometimes even shapes our identities. But here’s the real question—does our work truly define who we are?

Let’s think about it. When you meet someone new, they usually ask, “What do you do?” And just like that, we often find ourselves labelled by job titles. It’s as if what we do for work is the most interesting thing about us. But is it? Nope, not at all. You are so much more than your 9-to-5. Your values, passions, kindness, and the way you treat others—that’s the real you. Your work is just one part of your life, not the whole story. lets just try to ………………… Think about it this way: Have you ever met someone whose personality shines beyond their job? Maybe they’re an artist at heart, a great listener, or someone who lights up a room with their humour. These qualities have nothing to do with their job description, but they leave a lasting impression.

So why do we let work overshadow the other parts of us? Maybe it’s society’s way of measuring success, or maybe it’s just easier to use job titles as a shortcut to understanding someone. Whatever the reason, it’s time to flip the script. Let’s redefine success not by what we achieve at work but by who we are as people. Are you a good friend? Do you lend a helping hand when someone needs it? Are you kind to strangers? These are the things that truly matter. Now, this doesn’t mean work isn’t important. Of course, it is. It’s a source of growth, learning, and livelihood. But it’s not the only thing. Balance is key. Make time for what makes you happy outside of work—hobbies, family, friends, or just enjoying a good book.

Remember, when it’s all said and done, people won’t remember you for the hours you put into your job. They’ll remember how you made them feel, the memories you created, and the love you shared.

@nandasagec manisha nandan

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