LIVE BY CHOICE NOT BY CHANCE!!!!

Have you ever noticed how much we rely on others to validate our choices? From the clothes we wear to the career paths we choose, it often feels like we’re constantly seeking approval. But what if I told you there’s a way to break free from this cycle? It all starts with knowing yourself.

When you truly understand who you are—your strengths, your values, and even your quirks—you become more confident. You no longer need someone else to tell you that you’re doing okay because deep down, you already know it. This self-awareness is like having an inner compass. It helps you stay true to yourself, no matter what others think.

Think about it. If you know that kindness is one of your core values, you won’t feel the need to impress people with flashy gestures. If you understand that you’re more creative than logical, you won’t waste time chasing a career that doesn’t suit you just because it sounds impressive to others.

Knowing yourself also means accepting your imperfections. You realize it’s okay not to fit into every box society has created. And guess what? That’s incredibly freeing! When you stop seeking approval, you find the courage to try new things, take risks, and live life on your terms. It’s not about ignoring others’ opinions entirely. Feedback can be valuable, and we all need a little guidance sometimes. But when you know yourself, you can distinguish between constructive advice and unnecessary criticism. You stop letting every little comment shake your confidence.

In the end, the journey to self-discovery is a personal one. It takes time and effort, but the reward is priceless: a life where you’re comfortable in your own skin and no longer dependent on others to validate your worth. So, take the time to know yourself—you might be surprised at how little you need approval once you do.

@nandasagec MANISHA NANDAN

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