LIVE BY CHOICE NOT BY CHANCE!!!!

Let’s be honest—how many times have we all wished someone would just change a little? Maybe a friend who never listens, a partner who takes you for granted, or a colleague who never meets deadlines. It’s frustrating, isn’t it? But here’s the harsh truth: expecting people to change for you is a recipe for disappointment.

People Change, But Not Because You Want Them To

Change is personal. People change when they see a reason to, when they feel the need to, or when life forces them to. But rarely does someone change just because you asked them to. Think about it—how often have you changed just because someone else wanted you to? Probably not very often, unless you yourself felt it was necessary.

Control What You Can

The only person you have full control over is yourself. Instead of waiting for others to change, why not shift your perspective? You can either accept them as they are, set boundaries, or remove yourself from situations that drain you. Expecting someone to magically become the version you prefer is like waiting for rain in a drought—it may come, but it’s unpredictable.

What If They Never Change?

This is the real question. Can you live with them as they are? If the answer is yes, then stop stressing over their flaws. If the answer is no, then maybe it’s time to walk away. Expecting people to be different while refusing to change your expectations is a never-ending loop of frustration.

Maybe……………………… People are more likely to change when they see change in you (I don’t know what that really means). But it is true that if we want respect, we must be respectful. If we want kindness, we must be kind. because , Sometimes, change isn’t about demanding it but about inspiring it.

So………………………………… Expecting others to change for you is wishful thinking. But then Real peace comes when you accept people for who they are or decide to step away. Just …………………Focus on what you can control—your actions, your reactions, and your own growth. And if someone does change for you, consider it a bonus, not an expectation.