LIVE BY CHOICE NOT BY CHANCE!!!!

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life rarely goes exactly the way we plan. Isn’t it ? We all have dreams, desires, and so much expectations. Maybe it’s a relationship we thought would last forever, a job we really wanted, or a version of ourselves we imagined by a certain age. But here’s the truth: not everything we want in life stays with us, and sometimes, what we get isn’t what we expected — or even asked for.

But,Why Don’t We Get What We Want????????

There’s no single answer. Sometimes we aren’t ready. Sometimes life has different plans. Sometimes what we want isn’t actually good for us, even if we don’t see it at the time. But it definitely hurts when things don’t work out — we feel disappointed, heartbroken, or even lost. But those moments, I think or may be are part of being human………………. may be They shape us. They teach us resilience. They push us to grow. answer could be by any ways…………,,,

Now just, Think about the people who were once close to you but are no longer around. Or the opportunities that slipped away. You might have thought, “This is it. This is what I need to be happy.” But it didn’t stay.

And guess what? You’re still here. You’ve probably learned something, changed a bit, and kept going.

Because even though things leave, life doesn’t stop.

Sometimes We Get What We Didn’t Ask For………………………….

And life is funny that way — sometimes we receive things we never planned for. A surprise friendship. A lesson we didn’t know we needed. A chance to do something totally new. At first, we may resist it, thinking it’s not what we wanted. But with time, we often realize it brought something valuable.

We spend so much energy trying to hold on, trying to control. But maybe peace comes when we let life flow. When we accept that things will come and go. When we stop holding on so tightly and trust the process.

As, ………………Life isn’t always fair, but it is always moving.,,,

But the thing is ……………..We can still dream. We can still work hard. But along the way, we must remember: outcomes aren’t always in our hands. Effort is. Attitude is.

So, cherish what you have while it’s there. Let go of what’s gone. And stay open to what’s coming — even if it’s not what you planned. Because sometimes, what you didn’t want turns out to be exactly what you needed.

@nandasagec manisha nandan